Here’s my Happy, Healthy Life worksheet:

Left Path

Negative Thoughts and Beliefs about Achievements/Tasks

Right Path

Positive Thoughts and Beliefs about Achievements/Tasks

I must make sure other people like everything I doI will do things I am proud of
My achievements will never be good enoughI will do things I enjoy, regardless of what other people think
I can’t handle criticism when I’m being creativeOther people’s reactions to my creativity isn’t my concern
I need to justify why I feel the way I doI accept that I feel the way I do right now, whether other people accept it or not
I need to convince other people, or make sure they approve of what I think and doWhat I think and do are natural by-products of who I am. Other people’s opinions or approval is unimportant. Freedom comes from letting go of approval-seeking.
There isn’t enough time to do everything I want to doThere is plenty of time to do the things that are really important to me
I desperately want to be successfulMy self-worth and happiness are not related to how successful I am