Well it's been a long time between updates, but I thought I'd drop in to wish you all a Happy 2011.
This year has been pretty rough at times, but I seem to be recovering gradually. There is hope on the horizon. On a bad day it may feel like wishful thinking, but I don't think so.
Most of my energy in 2010 was taken up with a very demanding acting course, which another friend with Chronic Fatigue recommended as a way of unlocking my blocked emotions. Wow, it was a blast. High highs, and low lows. Plus I got to meet a really inspiring group of people who are pursuing their dreams. I'll always be grateful for the friend who put me onto it. Did it make me better physically? I'm not so sure, but it was a great experience and I do seem a bit more energetic than when I started the year.
In lieu of any better explanation, I'm going along with Gupta's amygdala hypothesis that the underlying problem is really anxiety. It seems to fit my symptoms, especially the panic attacks and frequent anxiety overwhelm. I suspect I got more out of doing Path of Love than I did out of doing the Gupta program though, and I'm going to continue to pursue avenues for emotional catharsis, reducing anxiety and eliminating shame through exposure in loving environments.
I've spent the last 4 months working on The Confident Man Project, which is now mostly in maintenance mode. There will always be more stuff I can do on it, but I have many other projects in mind to complete. I tend to jump from one thing to another rapidly without settling, which makes it difficult to see anything through to successful completion. I think the more emotional healing work I do, the closer I get to being my true self, and the clearer my plan for the future should become.
One minute I want to be a rock star, the next a famous writer, the next a stand-up comic, and then some sort of life coach. Fear of failure and the amount of effort involved in anything creative to become successful has me blocked. I feel stressed due to a lack of clear direction, but in the mean time I keep working on existing projects. Maybe one day I'll feel satisfied just "being" without having to "do"; but I want to make a contribution and I want to be rewarded financially. That's not gonna happen just sitting back meditating all day, even if I did have the patience for it.
Anyway, life is pretty good. I'm not so depressed these days, and less anxious lately. Sharing how I really feel with other people has been tremendously valuable in this regard, as has learning to express my anger and stand up for myself more. It's all hard work when I'm feeling fatigued, but that hasn't been so bad lately, so I feel optimistic.
Be kind to yourselves, and be real with other people folks. If people accuse you of negative thinking when expressing frustration, grief or upset at being ill, tell 'em to take a hike. We will get better. Hang in there...